Artist: Aretha Franklin
Album: I Never Loved a Man the Way I Love You
Genre: Southern Soul / RnB
“You’re a no good heart breaker
You’re a liar and you’re a cheat
And I don’t know why
I let you do these things to me
My friends keep telling me
That you ain’t no good
But oh, they don’t know
That I’d leave you if I couldI guess I’m uptight
And I’m stuck like glue
Cause I ain’t never
I ain’t never, I ain’t never, no, no (loved a man)
(The way that I, I love you)”
I was doing my best to avoid getting around to this album when I saw it was next, not because I dislike Aretha Franklin or anything but more because of it’s content. It’s happened a few times that the albums I’ve listened to have had content that paralleled what was going on in my life at the time and this sadly seemed to be one of them. If you replace the word man in the album title with woman then that about fits the exact sentiment I had been feeling these days. There’s ups and downs as always, lots of anger, sadness, regret, grief, shame, relief, a real mixed bag of emotions that never seems to let up. It’s normal, it happens, you gotta live through it. Nobody said it would be easy, but things like this are always the most difficult. A lot of playing the blame game, falling on yourself especially and feeling hurt and lost and alone, especially when you hit that point that you believe it’s all your fault, but the reality is it’s never one perosn’s fault, both are to blame and that’s just the way it is. I can’t keep beating myself up and constantly making myself feel like I was an insane person for anything, it’s not healthy for me and just spirals me down even further (especially when I’ve been made to feel like I was a crazy person who couldn’t handle things)… I digress though…
So yeah, I’ve been going through a rough time these days and I was afraid this album would trigger some unwanted emotions.
I’m happy to say it didn’t and I was able to enjoy it for what it was. Aretha Franklin is one hell of a singer and can belt out a song like no one else can. She has so much force in her voice that it hits you right to the core of your soul (I feel like I’ve used that sentence twice in the past two days). I don’t know if she’s considered the Queen of soul, but if she is, she rightfully deserves that title. There’s so much soul in this album you can feel every emotion and feeling that Aretha is going through on every note. You really believe what she’s singing and it’s actually kind of sad at first, but the second half of the album really feels hopeful and that was kind of nice to hear by the end of it as it started to make me feel hopeful as well. Hopeful for what’s to come, my future and everything. I believe so… and Aretha helped me through that. I wish she was 25 because it’s hard not to love this woman.
When Aretha isn’t singing about heartbreak or lovin her man or doing right, she opens the album with an Otis Redding cover (a great contender for possibly one of the best covers ever) that completely re purposes the original meaning of the song. Where Redding’s version was a man asking for respect from his wife because he gives her everything and feels she doesn’t appreciate it, here Franklin turns it into a feminist anthem asking her man to respect her. It’s fantastic and Aretha sells it like no other. It doesn’t stop at that song, she really gives her all throughout the entire album and it really is nice. The album does make a sudden shift by the end of it and you feel like you left a different album than what you entered, but it’s still worth it until the end.
I was actually shocked to find out this was her tenth album. It honestly felt like a debut or at least second or third, but tenth? I don’t know what she was doing before this one, but I’m glad she finally found her rhythm to crank this one out. Listening to it made me think of one of my favourite comedy films of all time “Blues Brothers”, because she makes an appearance singing in it. Apparently they had to do so many takes because she was horrible at Lip-Syncing her own songs. Funny, but a real testament to her talent that she only ever performs live and never relies on backing tracks to help her. I actually kind of want to watch Blues Brothers now…
I know what I’m doing tomorrow.
Song of Choice: Save Me
P.s. Apologies for the moodiness. I Promise my next post will be more upbeat and cheery.